WAYS TO OVERCOME

4.0 Ways To Overcomes

Bullying in the new and modern world, become a serious and dangerous activities, especially for school students. Everyone should takes their role to make sure that these problems can be cure as soon as we can. There are a few ways to settle these problems before its become more serious. Parents, government and school are the main committee that have their own role to help overcomes the bullying problem from become more serious, especially in our country.

4.1.1 Parent role

The first way how to overcome bullying is come from their parent. As a parent, especially their children are school students, they must play a role for their children. As we can see, now most of the parent take an easy way by giving all their responsibility to school. Actually all parent have their own responsibility to their children even how busy they are. They should more alert about their children’s activities and friends. They must give them more attention and time. By these way parents can control their children from bullying problems. Sometimes the children feels that their parent never cares about what they are doing because their parents didn’t love them. That is why they think that they can do whatever they want, because no one will care about it. So, parents should realize that money is not everything for the children, they need loves and cares from their family. Besides, parents should give them more quality times. At that times many thing that parents and their children can doing together, for examples playing badminton, exercising and jogging. Sometimes, parents should spent times to heard their children’s problems and to share everything. As a parents, they should know with whom their children be friend, because the friend can influencing them to do something negative or positive. So, they should make sure that all their children’s friends are good friends and comes from good family. If the parents can play their role perfect as they can, these problems can settled because the children didn’t have any reason to do that, and they now that their parents love them and want everything best for them.


4.1.2 Government

The second way to control these problems is from the government role. Government is the big organization in a country, and these problem can causing bad effect for the country development. Therefore, the government must take an affective role to overcome the bullying problems. For example, the government can organize some speech or campaign about the negative effects of bullying. Any speech about bullying especially from counselor can make the student realized that bullying is the bad activities, and the student should be give the way how to avoid these things and how to handle these situation if they undergo. However, the campaign should be started at the primary school and continuous at the high level. The campaign likes ‘bullying is bad’ and ‘we hate bullying’ is the other ways to share an information about it. Sometimes the students didn’t know about bullying and they are the victims of the bullying, so by the campaign they know how to do and to escape themselves from bullying. Besides, advertisement or public announcement from the government likes, the factor and the bad effect of the bullying can aware the public to take an action and stay away from these problems. The advertisement and public announcement can be viewed in television, newspaper, and magazines.

4.1.3 School

Besides, school also have their own roles to overcomes bullying problems. School must to control their students. The school administrator should play their role. The important way in this case is the awareness among student self. For example, student that be caught because of the bullying case should give the punishment. But, hard punishment like caning is not the only way to make them realized their mistakes. Beside caning, they must take the counseling from the school counselor, these is the better way to make them know that bullying is a bad habits for them and the others. The teachers should always river-fish all the students in the school to make sure that the students free from bullying.